Disclosure: Butterball provided me with a turkey gift check, as well as two other turkey gift checks to giveaway, in exchange for a post. All opinions are 100% my own.
I’ve always been a fan of having big family gatherings for holiday meals. I used to watch my mom, aunts and my grandma flawlessly host Thanksgiving year after year, so when I got married, I thought I would give it a try. I mean, how hard could it be?
I’ll never forget that first year. I ran out of counter space, I ran out of oven space, I ran out of time…I mean, there was a meal at the end, but I was a stressed-out mess. I learned quite a few things, and ever since, while there’s always SOMETHING that doesn’t quite go as planned, our holiday meals have been a whole lot better.
Hosting your Thanksgiving Meal Tips:
- Test recipes before the big meal. My first year, I had the idea to make all of my mom’s recipes, as well as a few online recipes, all of which I never made before. If you make them once, you’ll know exactly how much time they take, what prep is involved, and most importantly, how they turn out. You don’t want recipe fails on Thanksgiving!
- Make a master grocery list as you go. When you find a recipe you like, bookmark it, type out or write out the ingredients you will need, and keep it all in one sheet or file. Then, before the grocery trip, double check that everything is included on the list. You don’t want to be scrambling at a gas station on Thanksgiving morning when you realize you don’t have enough eggs to make the sweet potato casserole!
- Plan out your week. Prepare as much as you can. I like to bake desserts the night before, and prepare vegetables that I’ll need for appetizers and side dishes the night before. For the week of, I have daily to-dos, and for the day of, I have everything planned out to the half hour (with 2 half hour breaks thrown in there, just in case something goes wrong). It might be a little too planned out to some, but it works perfectly for me.
- Make sure the turkey has enough time to thaw. Butterball has a great calculator where you enter the weight of your turkey and it takes all of the guess work out of figuring out how much time the turkey needs to thaw. I prefer refrigerator thawing, because I just put the turkey in a disposable aluminum pan (in case the bag leaks while the turkey is thawing), and let it thaw. Sure, you can cold water thaw a turkey (Butterball has the how-to here) , but it requires you to constantly change out the water, which can be a bit annoying with everything else involved in hosting a meal.
- Make an oven plan. I feel like our oven is always a huge issue on Thanksgiving Day. We’re lucky to have a smoker and my husband’s Dad has an outdoor Turkey “fryer”, so there’s no worries about when the turkey will come out of the oven for when relatives/friends are bringing their dishes to reheat. However, when everyone is bringing a dish that needs to be heated, oven space is a valuable thing. I’ve been known to stack aluminum pans in the oven when it’s almost time to eat.
- Wash dishes as you go. I learned this lesson the hard way. While sometimes guests offer to help out with dishes, I don’t always count on it. Throwing in those half hour breaks/buffers in the planning allows me to take a few minutes to wash/dry dishes as I cook. It really helps!
- Getting those leftovers out of the house. Most of the time, your guests will not bring containers for leftovers. I like to purchase disposable aluminum containers or plastic containers, and after everyone has eaten, portion everything out into those containers for guests to take home. We definitely keep leftovers for ourselves, but being just two people, we don’t need leftovers after a 20 person meal.
- Enjoy. Try not to live in the kitchen all day. Your loved ones are at your house….make sure to spend time with them. 🙂 Also, if guests offer to help out in any way, take them up on it! You aren’t a bad hostess if your guests are helping you out in the kitchen. Chances are, they want to spend time with you! They aren’t just there for a meal! I’ve had a holiday where I felt like it was just me and my husband and 20 other people in our living room…I just kept saying “no” to offers for help. Never again.
If you’re hosting Thanksgiving this year, Butterball’s website is a great resource. This year, Butterball created their own “search engine” for Thanksgiving!
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Also, as always, the experts at the Turkey Talk-Line are available to answer your questions, too!
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Meg says
My favorite recipe to use is a simple stuffing recipe my mom taught me. Bread, butter, spices, then stuff. But somehow, it always tastes like she made it. Amazing!
Kate says
I luckily do not have to host this year, but I am always happy to bring a dessert to share! I’m going to do apple pie this year, and possibly an extra to have at home 🙂 My favorite every year is my grandmother’s stuffing, and luckily no matter who hosts in our family, we all use the same recipe!
Sarah-The Home Cook says
Not hosting but I am cooking at my dad’s house. I always make whiskey glazed carrots. So good!
Melanie J says
#7 is such a great tip that most people overlook.
Melissa says
I am hosting this year in our new house (with a very small kitchen), and I haven’t hosted in a while! Trying to find that balance between over-the-top-everything-from-scratch and keep-it-simple-so-I don’t-lose-my-mind!
Jenn K says
I am not hosting this year, thankfully! I like to make mini chocolate chip cheesecakes for dessert every year.
Denise Oviedo says
I’m not hosting this year but I’m helping my mom with some side dishes.
Heather says
I have to work this year so we will be having a late Thanksgiving dinner cooked by me!
Patricia Alner says
I will not be hosting Thanksgiving this year but will be hosting a turkey dinner later. I always make homemade mashed potatoes and green bean cassarole! Not thanksgiving without it!
Stephanie says
we are going to my grandmas house
Julie says
We are having Thanksgiving at my cousin’s house. thanks for the giveaway
tammigirl says
I’m not sure who is hosting this year. My aunt usually does, and my cousin and I both have bigger houses now and keep saying we will do it. Then my aunt insists she is doing it. After Thanksgiving she might say she’s willing to let us take it next year, but then she never really wants us to do it. *shrug*
I make the rolls and my husband makes a corn souffle – we might take other things like fresh cut fruit, a garnish tray, etc.
We usually make our own Thanksgiving at home, too.
D SCHMIDT says
I am hosting this year and my favorite dish is sage and onion stuffing.
Birdiebee says
Yes, I am hosting this year and my favorite side dish is Sausage and Mushroom stuffing.
Monelle says
We will be having a small Thanksgiving in Texas with my mom. 🙂 I love some sweet potato casserole, especially with the pecan crumble topping!
Ty says
Yes, I am hosting this year. My favorite dish I make is a sweet potato casserole.
Annette says
I’m not hosting Thanksgiving, but I will be making my favorite recipe: Cornbread Dressing.
shaunie says
Yes, I will be hosting this year.
Janice Cooper says
Not hosting Thanksgiving dinner, but will be making one of my favorites- homemade macaroni and cheese
Kaitlin says
We are going to two Thanksgivings, and we are hosting Thanksgiving at our home too! We love eating deep fried injected turkey and stuffing together!
Sarah Griffin says
We plan to host this year! So excited and mildly stressed.